.Yet what Astrid does not recognize yet is actually an honest truth that both Ortega and O'Hara-- that has two kids-- may attest to: The fact that your connection with your moms and dads modifications as well as advances as you both age, and also with any luck right. "Your world facilities around [your kids] when they are actually infants [and also] it is actually so much job however beautiful," O'Hara points out. "Later, you definitely miss out on that, since at that point you can not acquire them to do anything you want them to carry out, given that they begin building their personal minds, their own viewpoints." As well as ultimately, you end up in the spot O'Hara, whose kids remain in their 20s as well as 30s, locates herself right now, able to learn from her children. "They are actually just such cool young fellas," she says. "I'm not their colleague, yet I like possessing discussions along with all of them as well as understanding just how they think about life.".